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HOW TO KEEP A DISAGREEMENT FROM BECOMING AN ARGUMENT

SUGGESTIONS ON HOW TO KEEP A DISAGREEMENT FROM BECOMING AN ARGUMENT:

  • WELCOME THE DISAGREEMENT:
ONE OF THE TWO PERSON MAY BE WRONG, DISAGREEMENT IN YOUR OPPORTUNITY TO BE CORRECTED BEFORE YOU MAKE SERIOUS MISTAKE.



  • DISTRUST YOUR FIRST INSTINCTIVE IMPRESSION:
OUR FIRST REACTION IN DISAGREEABLE SITUATION IS TO BE DEFENSIVE.



  • CONTROL YOUR TEMPER:
REMEMBER YOU CAN MEASURE THE SIZE OF PERSON BY WHAT MAKES HIM OR HER ANGRY.


  • LISTEN FIRST:
GIVE YOUR OPPONENTS A CHANCE  TO TALK.DO NOT RESIST DEFEND OR DEBATE. THIS ONLY RAISE BARRIERS, TRY TO BUILD BRIDGES OF UNDERSTANDING.



  • LOOK FOR AREAS OF AGREEMENT:
DWELL FIRST ON THE POINTS AND AREAS ON WHICH YOU AGREE.



  • BE HONEST:
LOOK FOR AREAS WHERE YOU CAN ADMIT MISTAKES AND SAY SO.



  • POSTPONE ACTION :
TO GIVE BOTH SIDES TIME TO THINK THROUGH THE PROBLEM.



Comments

  1. Unknown19 October 2020 at 01:19

    Nice👏🏻

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  2. unusuallover20 October 2020 at 03:54

    how do I agree with out being disagreeable (i might not fully agree with them on some points

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  3. Cedric Noronha20 October 2020 at 05:06

    Very good post. Highly motivational. Nicely written. Keep up the good work.

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  4. bright nut20 October 2020 at 06:46

    Very good. Keep it up .

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  5. Sukhpreet20 October 2020 at 07:44

    Very well written!

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  6. Unknown20 October 2020 at 23:11

    This is very helpful!

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