NO CONFIDENCE ? HERE IS HOW TO FAKE IT, TILL YOU MAKE IT !

ONE OF THE MOST ATTRACTIVE QUALITY  A PERSON SHOULD POSSES IS SELF CONFIDENCE. BUILDING TRUE FAITH IN YOURSELF IS SOMETIMES A PROJECT THAT SPANS YEARS , BUT THE GOOD NEWS IS THAT YOU CAN FAKE IT , TILL YOU MAKE IT.. I AM NOT SUGGESTING YOU TO  BECOME UNAUTHENTIC.BUT THE POINT IS THAT YOU CAN REFLECT IT INTO YOUR PERSONALITY THROUGH SOME WAYS ,TILL YOU FULLY POSSES IT ..

HERE ARE SOME WAYS:

• SPEAK THE RIGHT BODY LANGUAGE:

ONE OF THE BEST WAYS TO SHOW OTHER PERSON THAT YOU ARE CONFIDENT IS THROUGH YOUR BODY LANGUAGE. USE SOME POWER POSES LIKE KEEP YOUR LEGS APART INSTEAD OF BEING CROSSED , SPEAK TO SOMEONE WITH APPROPRIATE NODES AND GENUINE SMILE.

• MASTER EYE CONTACT :

THE OTHER BEST WAY TO REFLECT YOURSELF AS A BOLD PERSON IS WITH MASTERING THE ART OF EYE CONTACT . MAINATIN A BALANCE THAT SHOULD BE  ABOUT 60 % OF THE TIME YOU SHOULD COMMUNICATE WITH OTHER PERSON THROUGH PROPER EYE CONTACT . PAY ATTENTION TO OTHER PERSON GENUINELY .

• SOUNDS LIKE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT :

WHILE COMMUNICATING WITH OTHER PERSON ON ANY TOPIC , SHOW THAT YOU HAVE MUCH KNOWLEDGE ABOUT THAT TOPIC RATHER THAN BEING CONFUSED ABOUT TOPIC . USE SOME POWER WORDS THAT SHOWS YOU POSSES DEEP  KNOWLEDGE . AVOID USING WORDS LIKE 'UMM'  , THESE TYPE OF WORD REFLECT YOU AS A JUMBLED.

• IMITATE THE GREATS :

SOME PEOPLE EXUDE CONFIDENCE LIKE SUN RADIATES HEAT. EVEN IF YOU DONT HAVE NATURALY THAT AURA , YOU CAN DO A LITTLE STUDY ABOUT WHAT IMPRESSES YOU ABOUT THEM., THEN TRY TO ADOPT A BIT OF THAT YOURSELF UNTIL IT RINGS TRUE .

• DO THINGS YOU ARE GOOD AT :

DOING WHAT YOU ARE AWESOME AT OR JUST REMINDING YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE STELLAR AT THOSE ACTIVITIES , CAN GIVE YOU A HIGH WAVE OF CONFIDENCE TO RIDE UNTIL TILL YOU BELIEVE IT.

• ACCEPT COMPLIMENTS INSTEAD OF DEFLECTING THEM :

START ACCEPTING COMPLIMENTS , INSTEAD OF BEING AWKWARD ABOUT IT . JUST A SIMPLE THANK YOU WILL WORK BETTER THEN SHOWING THAT AWKWARD FACES.

• QUIT APOLOGIZING UNNECESSARILY :

FOR SOME IT TAKES WORKS TO LEARN HOW TO MAKE AN APOLOGY EVEN WHEN ITS DESPERATELY NEEDED, WHILE OTHERS SAY 'I AM SORRY' WAY TOO EASILY. ON THE ONE HAND , WHEN YOU DO NEED APOLOGIZE FOR REAL, IT WILL  MAKE SIGNIFICANTLY LESS AND ON THE OTHER HAND YOU ARE GIVING AWAY YOUR OWN VALUE EVERY TIME YOU APOLOGIZE UNNECESARILY.